What is it about spirituality that keeps us leaning toward it? Some of us even long for it, regardless of whether we embrace routine fellowship in stained-glassed churches or solitary strolls in the temple of nature.

In our achievement-oriented society, failure is not viewed positively. Employers, teachers, parents, and others praise success. Some people are supportive and empathetic when someone fails at any given task. Many people are not, however.

The struggle for control is at the heart of codependency. Codependency means that we care so much about keeping the peace that we will do whatever it takes to avoid making someone else angry or upset. We give our power away.

Have you lost sight of yourself? Are you too focused on the needs, feelings, perceptions, and problems of those you care about? Do you wonder whether you can do anything to feel less resentful and drained by the people in your life?